Saturday, August 15, 2020

My Old Missouri Home

There are few people who don’t know about Stephen Foster’s “My Old Kentucky Home.” But there are not many who do know about my old Missouri home to which I moved 75 years ago this month, so let me tell you a bit about it.

Becoming a Farmboy

I was born 82 years ago today (on August 15, 1938) in the little town of Grant City, the county seat of Worth County, Missouri. My father was born on a farm in the southeast part of that county and my mother moved to Grant City with her birth family when she was a young teen. My parents graduated in the same high school class in 1933 and married two years later.

During World War II, my father and then my mother also worked in the Sunflower Ordnance Plant in western Johnson County, Kansas. In 1945 as the war was winding down, they went in with my mother’s parents to buy a 480-acre farm (for $16,000!) about six miles northeast of Grant City.

My grandparents moved into the old farmhouse, which did not have electricity or indoor plumbing, and not long after my seventh birthday I went to live with them in order to start the school year in Grant City.

Later that year, my parents moved from Kansas to the farmhouse and my grandparents moved back to their farm on the other side of town.

The next spring, we were able to have the house wired for electricity, and maybe the next year we installed indoor plumbing. It was great to no longer have to use the outdoor toilet! Year by year we improved the house, first inside and then the outside.

So, even though it was 75 years ago this month that I began living in my old Missouri home and became a farmboy, I have deep appreciation for the many blessings of having had such a childhood.

My old Missouri home in 1950; improvements were made inside first.

The Benefits of Being a Farmboy

1947 school picture
of farmboy Leroy

In the briefest fashion, these are some of the main boons I experienced from being a farmboy. 

1) I was part of a close-knit unit that worked together for the wellbeing of the whole family.

2) I learned how to work and to work hard.

3) I was able to raise my own livestock and was thereby able to become relatively independent financially at an early age.

Even though it was 65 years ago that I left my old Missouri home/farm to start to college, I still have great memories and deep appreciation for the ten years that I lived there.

The New Book of a Farmboy

Yesterday I basically finished writing my newest book. There will be some more editing, proofreading, and technical work before it is published, but I have completed the writing of it.

The title of this new book is A Wonderful Life: The Story of My Life from Birth until my 82nd Birthday (1938~2020). I have long said that I would never write an autobiography—but a couple of years ago I decided that I should write my life story for my children and especially for my grandchildren.

(I do not plan to do any marketing of this book when it is published later this year—not that I have done very well marketing the books that I did hope to sell!—but it will be available for purchase for the few people who might like to get a copy.)

As I explain on the first page, the title “A Wonderful Life” is not an evaluation I have heard from others. In fact, some may well think my life has not been particularly wonderful—and that’s all right.

The point is that I believe that I’ve had a wonderful life from the beginning up until today—and that includes, of course, the ten highly significant years I spent as a farmboy.

Naturally, not everything during the past 82 years has been wonderful. But yes, overall, I believe it’s been a wonderful life, and I am profoundly grateful. 

16 comments:

  1. Well, I think you've lived a wonderful life and a faithful one at that, too! Thanks for sharing. It's always interesting to get to know more about one's friends. And happy birthday! I'm pleased you wrote your autobiography for your family. That's a great gift!

    (BTW, I was born in a house without indoor plumbing, and it was in the middle of the city, although we did have electricity. But we made plenty of trips to great-grandma's house in Puxico in southeast Missouri with no plumbing or electricity--outhouses, community water pumps, kerosene lamps, and chamber pots!)

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  2. This Farm girl from south Missouri is glad she met the Farm boy from north Missouri. Happy Birthday!

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  3. Congratulations on finishing another book, Leroy! Looking forward also to your new edition of The Limits of Liberalism. And congratulations on a life so well lived … so far. Still time to make mistakes and make a difference for the good in this old world! Thanks for the being the invaluable friend and mentor you are to me.

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  4. Great story Leroy and I want an Autographed copy of your book when it comes out.
    You are an amazing person, who have touched the lives of many people.
    Congratulations on a life well lived and still going.
    LND,
    John(Tim)Carr

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    1. yes, Prof. Seat -- I would also like a copy. Thanks. Nancy Garner

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  5. Congratulations on the birthday, the new book, and the progress on the updated version of Limits of Liberalism. Life on the farm can be hard, but I wouldn't trade any of my memories. Our house in central KY got electricity ca 1939 as a part of KY rural electrification. The indoor plumbing came when I was a senior in high school in 1968. Pop thought the cattle barns were more important than our house! Being our pastor in the years you were at Ekron, KY, I'm sure you remember our "path out back" when you and Sister June came out for Sunday dinner. I would imagine Keith and Kathy would not remember such adventures there.

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  6. Happy Birthday, Dad! It was fun to go on an outing to the Atkins-Johnson Farm with you today as you are reflecting on the value of being raised on a farm. Your farm was certainly a centering place for our whole family. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts here, and I can't wait to read your autobiography! Love, Kathy

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  7. Happy birthday, Leroy. Congratulations on the finishing writing of your new book. May your 82nd year be filled with God's blessings.

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  8. Happy birthday, Leroy! I value my friendship with you, and I always look forward to reading your blog. I appreciate the personal perspective you bring here. I too think that you've lived a wonderful life. Maybe even God does, but God will have to speak for Godself.
    Peace,
    Michael Newheart

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  9. Happy Birthday! I am sure family and curious friends will enjoy your new book!

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  10. I appreciate all the comments posted above and the many I have received by email. After not posting any of the latter because of birthday activities on Saturday and then Sunday yesterday, I was just starting to post some of the comments received when the electric power went off. But now I'm ready and finally able to post comments and the first is from local Thinking Friend Bruce Morgan, who sent the following email comments before 6:30 on Saturday morning:

    "Very much liked your post today. A spirit of gratitude for a life of hard work, cohesive family, and simple pleasures is always a welcome message."

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  11. Next, I received the following, much-appreciated comments from Thinking Friend John Pierce, Executive Editor and Publisher at Good Faith Media:

    "Birthday blessings, Leroy. Thanks for continuing to speak clearly and truthfully."

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  12. And then there were these good words from Thinking Friend Eric Dollard in Chicago:

    "Thanks, Leroy, for sharing some memories and HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I would be very much interested in reading about your life in Japan.

    "My life has not been nearly as interesting as yours, but I have no right to complain. I have had a very easy life, unearned and undeserved, so I am very grateful for what I have. We have both been blessed with good health and wonderful wives, so how could we have done better?"

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  13. Here is part of a longer email received from local Thinking Friend Bob Leeper:

    "Thanks for sharing on your 82nd birthday. Many years ago I worked at a steel mill (in the Employment office) and we always looked for Farmboys coming to the city for work! Farmboys seemed to have the set of skills and the history of hard work and working hard, as you say.

    "Congratulations on leaving your story behind as good-reading; even if it has limited circulation, it will be a milepost for your family!"

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  14. Thinking Friend Jo Beth Fielder, who for many years was our missionary colleague in Fukuoka, Japan, and who has now for many years lived in Texas, wrote:

    "Thank you for the birthday greeting, Leroy. I enjoyed reading about your old Missouri home and beginnings, and although there was no air-conditioning, I can imagine that the two-story arrangement created sort of a chimney effect, whereby the cooler air entered in the lower windows and the hotter air left through the upper ones, creating a tolerable sleeping condition at night. . . .

    "It is a great blessing to look back on such a heritage and then to get it in presentable form, as you do with your blogs regularly, for your children and grandchildren."

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  15. And here are much-appreciated comments from Thinking Friend Greg Hadley, a fellow Missourian who has long been a university professor in Niigata, Japan.

    "I have been thinking on and off about this posting since it came. What a blessing to be able to look back and to say that life has been good. You have seen so many changes in this world during your life. You have been an agent of positive change as well.

    "Happy Birthday. You have been a gift to many, myself included."

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