This post is the third in my series on the 4-Ls. (Those of you who didn’t see the previous posts or want to review them can click here for the March 9 post and here for the one on March 30.)
The second of the 4-Ls is love, and the title of
this article comes from the following words by Leo Tolstoy:
The purpose of life is loving, the penetration of everything with love. It is the slow and gradual change from evil to good, it is the creation of the real life, the life filled with love (A Calendar of Wisdom, p. 249).
As
I began teaching Christian Studies in Japan, I soon realized that most of
my students were not only quite disinterested in Christianity but that they
were also not much interested in traditional Japanese religions either.
Many
students, however, were interested in thinking about the meaning of life
(the first of the 4-Ls) and of love.
Few
of my students had ever heard of or knew little about Kagawa Toyohiko, a Japanese Christian. But
the life and work of Kagawa (1888~1960), who obviously lived a life of love for
others, was appealing to many of them.*1
And
while many students were negative toward the racism they knew existed in the
U.S., which they generally regarded as a Christian country, they were impressed
by the life and work of Martin Luther King, Jr., and by his book Strength to
Love (1963; Japanese translation, 1965).*2
So,
I focused increasingly on how Christianity had been, and is being, expressed in
loving actions and less on the doctrinal expressions of the Christian religion.
Understanding
the distinctively Christian meaning of love is of great importance. In
English, “love” is used in many different ways. For example, a man may say he
loves his wife at one time and then in a different conversation say he loves
ice cream.
C.S.
Lewis, the English writer and popular theologian, sought to clarify that
diversity in his widely-read book Four Loves (1960). One of those four
was called agape in the Greek New Testament, and that word articulates
the particularly Christian form of love.
The
word “love” is not used as much in Japanese as in English. Rather than the word
for love (愛、ai),
Japanese people are more prone to say like (好きsuki)
or really like (大好き、daisuki). But to emphasize the distinctive meaning of
agape as used in the New Testament, I used holy love(聖愛、seiai).
Here is how that is written in Japanese calligraphy on the hanging wall scroll I introduced in the March 9 blog post:
In
the Gospels, Jesus stated clearly that following the commandment “Love
the Lord your God…,” the second greatest commandment is “Love your
neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:30-31, NIV).
This is a
commandment, though, that is definitely difficult to obey. How often do we
really love our “neighbor” as much as we love ourselves? And remember that
Jesus taught that a neighbor is any hurting/needy person who we have the
opportunity to help (see Luke 10:25~37).
Some of the “Church Fathers” spoke plainly, and challengingly,
about such neighbor-love. Consider these words of Basil of Caesarea (330~370):
The bread in your cupboard belongs to the hungry man; the coat hanging in your closet belongs to the man who needs it; the shoes rotting in your closet belong to the man who has no shoes; the money which you put into the bank belongs to the poor. You do wrong to everyone you could help but fail to help.
I am
not sharing these disturbing words to make us feel guilty, as perhaps we all
are. But if the purpose of life is loving, as Tolstoy wrote, seeking to love
God and to love our neighbors is, truly, the key to experiencing life to the
fullest.
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*1 Here is a link to the blog article I posted about
Kagawa in July 2013.
*2 The first of several blog posts
about King was in January 2010. I also wrote about his
explanation regarding Christian love in a September 2018 post, in which I also made reference to
chapters #22 and #25 in my book Thirty True Things Everyone Needs to Know
Now (published in 2020).
*3 Earlier this week, I posted a brief article about the hymn “The Love of God” on my alternative blogsite, and I encourage you to read it by clicking here.