Friday, December 10, 2021

Leaving Lottie: My Sad Journey Away from the LMCO

This month I have been feeling nostalgic for the early Decembers fondly remembered in past years.

Those were times when I was privileged to preach/speak in Southern Baptist churches about world missions, which I always did with gladness—and with appreciation for the support received from those churches as an SB missionary. But, sadly, things have changed.

An Enthusiastic Supporter of the LMCO

Except for active Southern Baptists, past and/or present, few know (or care) what LMCO stands for. It means the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering, which has been a lifeline for missionaries deployed by the International Mission Board (IMB) of the Southern Baptist Convention. 

An IMB webpage explains that the LMCO “is an annual offering collected by Southern Baptists to support international missions. The offering was officially named in 1918 by Woman’s Missionary Union in honor of the missionary to China who urged churches to start it and give sacrificially.”

(For information about the SB missionary Lottie Moon, see my 12/26/12 blog article about her and the LMCO.)

The same IMB webpage reports, “Through the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering, Southern Baptists have given over $5 billion to international missions.” That’s a lot of money!

My family and I were on missionary “furlough,” now called “stateside assignment,” in 1971, ’76, ’81, ’86, and ’91. Each of those years provided opportunities to visit churches, especially in early December, to promote giving to/through the LMCO—and to thank Southern Baptists for their support.

A Reluctant Supporter of the LMCO

Since 1980, the Southern Baptist Convention steadily became more and more conservative/fundamentalist. In that same period, my own faith had grown in the opposite direction. In the 1990s I increasingly became only a rather reluctant supporter of the LMCO.

After 2000, it became even more difficult for me to promote the LMCO enthusiastically, as I had done for decades. The problem was the adoption of a revised Baptist Faith and Message document that, among other things, mitigated against women serving as pastors.

After being forced to retire as an SBC missionary in 2004, my support for the LMCO virtually ended in 2005. Reflecting back, I grieve over that sad separation from a long and meaningful relationship.

A Non-Supporter of the LMCO

As the SBC grew more and more conservative, being a Southern Baptist meant not only opposing women in ministry but also being stanchly opposed to pro-choice (=anti-abortion) and pro-LGBTQ (=anti-gay) positions.

Naturally, the change in the SBC meant that newly appointed missionaries, and those older missionaries who chose to remain with the SBC, were mainly those who agreed with SBC’s theological and ethical positions.

It was not too surprising, then, that an overwhelming majority of Southern Baptists voted for Trump in 2016 and 2020. And it seems that Baptists in other countries have been influenced in the same direction by SB missionaries.

Brazil is one of the countries to which Southern Baptists have sent the most missionaries for the longest time. As a boy, I grew up hearing about the Bagbys of Brazil. Buck and Anne Bagby arrived in Brazil as SB missionaries in 1881. Five of their nine children later became missionaries to Brazil.

But just as Baptists in the U.S. have been, and still are, big supporters of Trump, in recent years Brazilian Baptists (and other evangelicals) have been strong supporters of President Jair Bolsonaro.

Bolsonaro (b. 1955) has reportedly remained a Catholic. But in 2016 he was baptized (immersed) in the Jordan River by an evangelical pastor, and he attends the Baptist church where his wife is a member.

Mrs. Bolsonaro’s church is the Attitude Baptist Church (interesting name!), which was organized in 2000 mainly through the work of an SB missionary.

“Bolsonaro’s faith-based enablers” is a Dec. 1 Christian Century article that describes how Bolsonaro and his evangelical support in Brazil mirror Trump and his evangelical support in the U.S.

As an outspoken critic of Christian fundamentalism for the past two decades, I am sadly no longer able to affirm a mission board and the long-esteemed LMCO which now mainly supports conservative evangelical missionaries who nourish similar believers in other nations, such as Brazil.

27 comments:

  1. The first comment this morning was by local Thinking Friend Anton Jacobs, who sent it by email because of the difficulty of commenting by iPhone. (I am sorry many of you have trouble posting directly on the blogsite, but there is nothing I can do about that. I am always happy, though, to post comments received by email.)

    "It’s been a long, long time since I had heard that catchy name of the LMCO! Yes, except for a period of time from, I guess, relatively early in the 20th century to the 1970s, the SBC has been largely a sad story of political reaction."

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    1. Thanks for your comments, Anton, and I am sorry you had trouble posting them by iPhone.

      Yes, I had the privilege of being a Southern Baptist in the 1950s, '60s, and '70, the heyday of what was during those decades a great denomination. In the 1950s I didn't know much about the history of the SBC, and after learning about that history in the 1960s I thought that it was a shameful past being redeemed by a progressive present and a hopeful future. Thus, as I wrote in post, I was an enthusiastic supporter of the LMCO during our first two "furloughs" in the 1970s.

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  2. A few minutes later, I received the following comments by email from Thinking Friend Jerry Jumper in southwest Missouri:

    "As an almost-lifelong SB I know about LMCO. And like you, no longer choose to be identified as a SB. A friend, fellow life group and church member, and wife of a deacon sent a text during the 2020 election which essentially said if one supported a Democrat, he/she couldn't be a Christian. I called and asked the pastor to remove my name from church membership. He said, 'I'll take care of it.' No questions asked. As our mutual friend Nolan Carrier said: you didn't leave SBs, they left you."

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    1. Thanks, Jerry, for your comments. What you wrote reminded me of the fall of 2004. We left Japan on the last day of July that year and in the middle of August moved into a house provided by the Mid-Lakes Baptist Association, centered in Bolivar (Mo.) June's mother was a long and loyal member of First Baptist Church in Bolivar, and we had many ties there from years past.

      That fall before the presidential election, we went to the small Democratic headquarters in Bolivar. When we introduced ourselves, the woman in charge was surprised when we told her we had long been Baptist missionaries. She said, "Around here, most people think if you are a Democrat, you can't be a Christian."

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  3. And then less than five minutes later, Thinking Friend Ruth Moye, a former SB missionary who now lives in Birmingham, wrote,

    "I will read your post in greater detail and write more later. I sadly agree with your views of SBC & the former FMB which we also needed to leave in 1993. Blessings & admiration!"

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    1. Thanks for writing, Ruth, and I hope you will write more later.

      I guess we were also ready to leave the SBC by around 1993, but I was not willing to give up the work I was doing in Japan--and we had no problem at all with the Japan Baptist Convention. Perhaps it was rationalization to some extent, but more than once June raised the question of how we could stay on as missionaries supported by a Convention we no longer agreed with. My rationale was that even though we no longer agreed with the Convention leadership and the direction it was going, there were still many Southern Baptists with whom we did agree, and so it was not contradictory for us to continue to serve with the support from those Baptists who had not changed from what they, and we, had been.

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  4. The previous comments were all by people who have had direct ties to the Southern Baptist Convention, but the following comments are from local Thinking Friend Marilyn Peot, a lifelong Catholic:

    "Amazing! You are true blue and are letting us know more about you--going for Truth--not idolatry, piety, self-righteousness and fundamentalism.

    "Conservative Christians are among us...and sadden us that Truth is not expressed by so many. And all in the name of Jesus!

    "Again I ask: How can one speak 'in the name' of someone when they do not know what that 'Someone' stands for.

    "May we who hunger after compassion, justice and wisdom continue to live into the life of our Holy Pattern...humbly and with receptivity."

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    1. Thanks, Marilyn, for your thoughtful words, and especially for your prayer at the end.

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  5. Thinking Friend Glenn Hinson, a former professor at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, comments,

    "I am touched by your sharing something so obviously personal, Leroy. I wonder how Lottie Moon would react to the use of her name for fundraising to support an enterprise so antithetical to her own commitment to the role of women in missions. She thwarted the then common insistence that women had to have husbands to go to the mission field."

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    1. I am quite sure that if Lottie had been born 100 years later, in 1940 rather than 1840, she would have severed ties with the SBC in her yearly 60s, if not before.

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  6. Thinking Friend Lonnie Buerge has been a longtime lay leader at Rainbow Mennonite Church (where June and I have been members since 2012). Lonnie wrote,

    "Leroy, I wanted to respond partly because I recognize this as a more personal post than many. I have no doubt that it has been a long and somewhat sad journey away from friends and organizations, even faith positions. I understand a little bit although I cannot lay claim to this whole experience. My own faith was earlier rooted in a Billy Graham/Youth for Christ outlook on faith and life. I truly felt that I would become a minister and told my church that was my plan. Well, that never took shape but the process of trying to understand my own faith has been a life-long endeavor to be sure. I sometimes think it will never be complete until I'm no longer breathing.

    "In any case, I wanted to recognize this personal statement that you are making here and its inherent risks/rewards. Thank you."

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    1. Thanks, Lonnie, for your personal sharing. You seem deeply rooted in the Mennonite expression of the Christian faith, I was surprised to learn that you once had had a Billy Graham/Youth for Christ outlook on faith and life.

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  7. It saddens me to learn about your and Others having such differences in doctrine from what you Loved and supported for so long.
    It seems our adversary is indeed "roaring around like a lion to see who he can devour".

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    1. Thanks, "Unknown," for your comments--and I think I know who you are--and thanks for sharing my sadness. But as I have written before about other matters, in spite of the sadness I have been feeling, I am trying to give thanks for what once was rather than grieving over what is no more. And, make no mistake about it: I am truly grateful for the support of Southers Baptists for decades and for all those whose support came partially through their Lottie Moon Christmas Offerings.

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  8. A local Thinking Friend who I seldom hear from, a woman who was a Southern Baptist for decades, sent the following brief email:

    "I would invite you to Holmeswood Baptist [Church], a Cooperative Baptist [church] and a polar opposite of all the things you mentioned. I too mourn Lottie!"

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    1. Thanks for your comments, and, yes, I am thankful for the existence of Cooperative Baptist fellowship churches such as Holmeswood. Unfortunately, there are far too few of them, and the CBF doesn't have anything close to the number of missionaries (and, I think, they don't even use that term) as the SBC and nothing that comes close to the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering.

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  9. Local Thinking Friend Ed Chasteen, who also was a Southern Baptist for decades and also, like the previous person, now a member of a Cooperative Baptist church--Second Baptist here in Liberty--also commented briefly:

    "Leroy, I share your memories of Lottie Moon. I'm grateful that the fundamentalists are losing and have sparked a backlash. Years from now, they will not look good.

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    1. Thanks for your comments, Ed. And I think you are correct in what you said about the fundamentalists, although the question is how far down the road "years from now" will be.

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  10. Even briefer was this email from local Thinking Friend Dub Steincross, a retired Southern Baptist pastor:

    "Say on, brother!"

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  11. Local Thinking Friend Ken Grenz is a retired pastor of the United Methodist Church. He writes,

    "I entirely understand and regret the SB [Convention] leaving you. Happy to know that you’ve found new sources of nourishment, though yet there remains loss. In a sense, I’m experiencing a similar loss from the UMC in which I’ve served, though in my case the current church crisis leaves many to most of my colleagues equally in limbo."

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    1. Thanks, Ken, for sharing about the turmoil currently going on in the UMC. It will be interesting to see what develops with the Ununited Methodist Church.

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  12. I much appreciate these kind, affirming words from local Thinking Friend David Nelson, a former Lutheran (ELCA) pastor:

    "Thanks for sharing this important part of your personal story. Your gifts in sharing and being the good news in Japan and now back in the USA are making a great positive impact in the world."

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  13. This morning I received the following sad comments from Thinking Friend Frank Shope in New Mexico:

    "Leroy, like you I am filled with grief because of the events that caused us to be turned out of the mission enterprise of the SBC. As a child I loved to hear and read about Lottie Moon and other missionaries that were held up as examples of godly missionaries.

    "I remember and participated in numerous associational missions conferences (the names changed through the years). They were blessed times as Foreign and Home missionaries came together to tell the stories of God’s activity on the various mission fields. What joyful times they were.

    "After the changes in 2000, I believed I would not make it to retirement and would be purged from SBC life. In 2012 that came true, and I fell apart mentally, spiritually and physically.

    "I miss what was and grieve often. I do not feel like I really have a community of faith anymore. I attend church weekly and participate in teaching. However, there is a great lacking.

    "While at Midwestern [Baptist Theological Seminary] and because of your classes and Dr. Hammer, God affirmed my call as a Missionary. That call has never gone away. I think and live as a missionary but am abandoned by the structure I once had pride in and supported with great joy."

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  14. And now this evening I received these comments from Thinking Friend Michael Olmsted in Springfield, Mo.:

    "I appreciate your honesty and sharing of the sad parting that reflects a non-biblical mindset that now shapes the SBC. My wife served as an SBC “journeyman” missionary in Hong Kong before we met and fell in love. We watched, with great grief, the SBC turn to fundamentalism and the negative limitations on women who were gifted witnesses, not just with children, and not only as a 'missionary wife.' Our too easy injection of the world’s prejudices and gender barriers continues to be a detriment around the world. Of course, there are gender limitations in many cultures ... BUT in Christ we should know better!

    "Someone suggested to me several years ago that we should not make so much of the gender issue on the mission field because our task is not to risk making too much of that subject. My response continues to be that above all else we are to reflect and act out Jesus’ love for all people and the Southern Baptist idea that God intends for a woman to walk in the shadow of a man’s authority REFLECTS A 'SHE' IS A LESSER PRESON BY GOD'S DESIGN and dishonors God’s perfect love and grace. The only way you can take that kind of stance is to ignore Jesus' treatment of women in a flawed culture ... to miss the whole concept of grace ... and to fail as human beings to love all people within the words and actions of Jesus.

    "Well, I have rattled on a bit much, but this is a heartbreaking subject, and it distresses me whenever anyone, including me, tries to fit God into our 'little' thinking. Thanks for the stimulation and your witness."

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  15. My son belongs to a Methodist Church in Minnesota with a large "All Means All" banner in the yard. Even my CBF (and former SBC) church is not ready for that simple declaration. I fear our WWJD moments often enough amount to "What Would Jim Crow Do?" Lottie Moon is just a small moment along the way. Honest Christians are far out in the wilderness, listening for the call of the still small voice.

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  16. In the blog article I referred to Brazil, but no one commented about the situation there until yesterday in a longer email Thinking Friend Eric Dollard in Chicago wrote,

    "You mentioned Brazil and Jair Bolsonaro. Brazil is something of a tragedy, led by a man who has disdain for the environment, the pandemic, and indigenous peoples. Brazil is also suffering from widespread violence, often by the police against people of color. As with the US, Brazil is struggling with racism and a legacy of slavery, which was not outlawed until 1888, although the majority of slaves had been manumitted by then. Also sad is that many evangelical Christians in Brazil support Bolsonaro’s corrupt regime just as many evangelicals support Donald Trump in the US.

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  17. Here are candid comments received yesterday from a Thinking Friend, who now lives in Texas, but was for many years my missionary colleague and personal friend in Japan.

    "I too join you in your sadness with state of the SBC. In my mind the SBC of today bears no resemblance to the organization that I was a part of from 1949 until 1995. I left the SBC because of the requirement to sign the Statement of Faith. That just struck me as being non-Baptist. I left a Church that I loved and a Nation that I enjoyed in order to return home and start over. My faith rejects most of what I find in SBC churches today.

    "I have mixed feelings about the people who captured the SBC and its Institutions. I do know one thing and that is that I do not agree with them on any level. That was a traumatic decision for us.

    "I miss the fellowship with the folks whose churches we used to visit on furlough. So difficult to come to grips with all those people making that decision to turn toward supporting a man like Trump. I really can’t get my head around that and am at a loss to explain it. But it does provoke feelings of sadness at all our loss."

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