Showing posts with label Du Mez (Kristin Kobes). Show all posts
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Wednesday, November 10, 2021

Not Joshing: Reflections on Masculinity, Femininity, and Humanity

On October 31, Senator Josh Hawley spoke at the National Conservatism Conference, which met in Orlando, Fla. His keynote address was titled “The Future of the American Man.” In that talk, he criticized the Left’s attacks on masculinity. But what does it mean to be masculine—or feminine? More importantly, what does it mean to be human?

Sen. Hawley is Not Joshing

Even though I am a Missourian, as you know or could easily guess, I am not a fan of Missouri’s junior Senator, Josh Hawley. My most widely read blog article of 2021 is “Hawley with Blood on His Hands,” posted on January 8. And his political statements/actions since then have been consistently bad.

It is sometimes hard to distinguish what politicians really think or believe from what they say to attract voters. Because of his possible candidacy for POTUS in 2024, or later, Sen. Hawley—as well as Sens. Cruz of Texas and Cotton of Arkansas—may say things to gain the attention of Trumpists.

Sen. Hawley seems not to be joshing, though, when he criticizes the Left for abetting the loss of masculinity among USAmerican males. Listen to his 26-minute speech (here) or read it (here) and see what you think.

In that speech, Hawley disingenuously declares, “The Left want to define traditional masculinity as toxic. They want to define the traditional masculine virtues—things like courage, and independence, and assertiveness—as a danger to society.”

Prof. Du Mez is Not Joshing

An opposite viewpoint is presented by Kristin Kobes Du Mez, a professor of history at Calvin University and the author of the bestselling book, Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation (2021).

Prof. Du Mez is not joshing when she declares early in her book that conservative evangelical Christians have often “replaced the Jesus of the Gospels with a vengeful warrior Christ.”

Accordingly, “evangelical support for Trump was no aberration, nor was it merely a pragmatic choice. It was, rather, the culmination of evangelicals’ embrace of militant masculinity, an ideology that enshrines patriarchal authority and condones the callous display of power, at home and abroad.”

Although she doesn’t use the words “toxic masculinity,” a widely-used term since early in 2019, Du Mez’s book speaks to the same perceived problem.

A 1/22/19 NYTimes article “What is Toxic Masculinity?” explains: “Toxic masculinity is what can come of teaching boys that they can’t express emotion openly; that they have to be ‘tough all the time’; that anything other than that makes them ‘feminine’ or weak. (No, it doesn’t mean that all men are inherently toxic.)”

In her writing about militant masculinity, though, Du Mez embraces most of the same ideas. And she is not joshing in her rejection of that as a Christian ideal—or in her rejection of what she sees in White conservative evangelicalism’s emphasis on “submissive femininity.”

I am Not Joshing

Rather than emphasizing masculinity or femininity, I strongly believe in placing stress upon humanity—and I am defining humanity in a slightly different way than usual.

If masculinity/femininity is as Dictionary.com says, “the quality or condition of being masculine/feminine” then perhaps it is not a stretch to say that humanity is primarily the quality or condition of being human.

Being human is more important than men being masculine or women being feminine.

Being human is more important than being male or female (or “x,” which is now a passport option for gender).

Being human is more important than being White or BIPOC.

Being human is more important than being straight or LGBTQ.

According to Genesis 1:27, “God created humanity in God’s own image” (CEB). In spite of gender differences, or any other differences, all people are primarily, and most importantly, human beings, equally created in the image of God.

This doesn’t mean differences should be denied, but those differences should be kept secondary. Regardless of their differences, all human beings are created as persons of equal worth.

So, yes, I am not joshing when I agree that toxic or militant masculinity is bad for everyone—as are toxic politicians such as Sen. Hawley.